There are little quirks and such you notice when you are with someone. For example, they might say a word slightly differently, or eat their food in a specific order. There are certain ways that you fit together, and certain things that you like to say when you see something together. There are rituals you share, and pet peeves that are annoyingly familiar.
There will always be that little obsession with a cartoon show or pop music, but there will be the mutual interest found elsewhere. There will be friends who know you as a couple and friends who knew both individuals separately before you were together.
The differences don't matter much, they add flair and dimension. Age, school, distance, music taste, love of mangoes, it doesn't make a damn bit of difference once you are head over heels in love with someone. Also, falling that deeply in love isn't a choice. Some say it's God's will, other's say it's destiny. It's just the way things happen.
It's love. For good, for bad, for better or worse, it's going to stick around. The challenge is increasing the stickiness factor so it stays around forever.
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